First Steps – June 14, 2021

“A vine planted among olive trees produces oily grapes with a tainted taste. In the same way, a soul that is often a companion with virtuous people will absorb their good qualities” (Francis de Sales).

I have often thought of this quote because we have a tendency to adopt many of the behaviors and characteristics of the people closest to us. Obviously, in this case, we hope for those closest to us to have holy and righteous qualities. Unfortunately, some of what we require (for self-growth) is not; therefore, the premium is on who we associate with and draw into our inner circles.

Now some would argue that as followers of Christ our mission is dedicated to those on the outside of God’s Kingdom, and that would be true. This raises the question of engagement—How does one engage a world that doesn’t reflect God’s image and not acquire its traits? The key lies in maintaining an inner self that is dependent upon God’s Spirit. If the inward nature of a person is continually formed by God’s Spirit, then there will be no room to absorb additional qualities from others that are around. Something can’t be absorbed if there is no room for it. A soaked sponge can’t ingest additional water. If one is whole, there is no need for acquisitions.

I think The Apostle Paul said it best, “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will” (Romans 12:1-2).

“Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need and thank him for all he has done.” – Philippians 4:6