| Aristotle defined different levels of friendship centered around the Greek word Phileo (Love). This type of love is based on an interpersonal association similar to brotherly or sisterly love. Naturally, Aristotle believed friendships can take three distinct forms based on this interpersonal love: A Transactional Form where the relationship between the two is based on the mutual benefit for both parties. Business partners would be a good example. A Mutual Pleasure Form where two parties share the same hobby or affinities (like a team). Both parties in the relationship receive pleasure from the shared interest. The link between the two persons is not genuine affection for each other as much as the joint affection in the shared interest. He believed #1 and #2 are lesser friendships because it is more about what one receives. The relationship is more one-way than two-way; however, there was a preferred friendship. A Primary Loving Form—non-sexual in nature with the bond of friendship that is created is independent of how useful one person is to the other. This type of friendship is risky but most rewarding for to love someone is to be willing to let them influence you, to show new things to want and to value—things you would have never wanted or valued if it weren’t for them. This type of friendship exists between individuals to whom the power to change another is given. It can be dangerous because one can never be sure what will become as a result. But in the end, these friends help one become who they are. To love this way is to invite risk because of the potential betrayal of trust. This type of love requires vulnerability. The New Testament challenges one to love this way because of the levels of meaningful relationships and friendships that will result. We need those types of friendships in our lives because it adds to who we are. Look at how the New Testament describes this need: Romans 12:10–Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Hebrews 13:1–Keep on loving one another as brothers and sisters. 1 Peter 1:22–Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for each other, love one another deeply, from the heart.  This Week’s Readings: *Monday – Romans 12 *Tuesday – Romans 13 *Wednesday – Romans 14 *Thursday – Romans 15 *Friday – Romans 16 Things to Pray About: -The violence and finding peace in our city, state, country, and in the world. -Pray for guidance, healing, protection, strength, courage, and faith. -Our unwillingly absent members. -Comfort those who are grieving and in distress. -Wisdom for our leaders as they navigate through uncertain times. -Family restoration through forgiveness. -Continued Growth Inside and Outside the Walls of St. Paul UMC. |
| “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need and thank him for all he has done.” – Philippians 4:6 |