First Steps – Monday, September 6, 2021

Today’s reflection is a post from my journal from a few weeks ago:

I’m genuinely sad. I pastor a congregation that lost a fine man yesterday. I’ve known him for 10 years, so I don’t assume my grief compares to those who knew him longer. Furthermore, my sadness is a small reflection of the pain and grief his family feels. Nonetheless, I feel the loss of someone who was a good human being who always sought to see the best in people. He treated people with dignity and respect. I wish the world was filled with those gregarious, fun-loving, kind souls that go about their day wanting others to feel love and validation. I’m certain life would be better if my wish was reality. Who knows, maybe one day.

Over the next few days, I’m certain that many will draw strength from telling stories about this dear soul. I’m certain many will find comfort in being together sharing their grief. I hope all who loved him will find a sense of peace in expressing their faith in God. One of the things I count on is the ability of God to reach down into the depths of a person’s being and hold him/her so that rest can be experienced. The way a child curls up in the arms of a parent is the image I envision. Everyone needs this security when faced with loss and grief. Frankly, I pray for that comfort for all who grieve.

Maybe today you find yourself experiencing loss and grief. If so, I hope you know there is a God willing to carry your burden. Reflect on his words, “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble of heart; and you will find rest. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28-30).